Six Things You Won't Regret Doing in Your 30s
1. Stop Telling Yourself What You "Should" Do One of the best parts of being an adult is having full autonomy over your life. While there are certainly things it's in your best interest to do--like regular doctor's appointments, financial planning, disaster insurance--it's important to remind yourself that you're doing them because you want to. Because you value responsibility. Because you've worked hard for what you have and it's a privilege to care for it. There will always be tasks you don't love, but they come with the territory of adulthood and approaching them as a get-to-do in stead of a should is critical for your mindset. When it comes to other people telling you what you should do--like how you should be married, should lose fifteen pounds, should learn to cook like your mom--that's where it's perfectly acceptable to draw a hard, permanent boundary. Your life's terms are defined by your wants and needs, so it's well within your rights to dismiss what allegedly well-meaning outsiders have to say about the direction you're taking. If anyone pulls the should card with you, the only thing you should do is walk away. 2. Put Yourself First In between jobs, family, passion projects, relationships, and chores, it can seem nearly impossible to make time for yourself. But you know what? You won't be good at any of those things if you aren't keeping yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy. By taking care of yourself, you'll eliminate regrets--no lamenting over vacation time wasted somewhere you didn't want to go, no pining for a break you didn't take, no dreading going to work because of your backlog of assignments. Build self-care time into your routine daily, even if it means flexing your schedule 20 or 30 minutes in your favor. Advocate for your…
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